How to Support Your Partner with Erectile Dysfunction
A man’s erection is a symbol of his masculinity and virility, but what if he struggles to maintain an erection? This can be frustrating and even embarrassing for him, as well as emotionally turbulent for his partner. Erectile dysfunction may sound like something that only happens in old age, but ED can strike at any time, even for younger men. In fact, ED affects over half of all men between the ages of 40 and 70. Keep reading to learn more about how you can support your partner when he's dealing with ED.
What is Erectile Dysfunction?
Erectile dysfunction, or ED, is a condition in which a man has difficulty getting or maintaining an erection. Contributing factors can include stress, anxiety, and various physical conditions. If you are worried that your partner may be experiencing ED, there are a few signs you can look out for.
How to Know if Your Partner Has Erectile Dysfunction
If you are concerned that your partner may have erectile dysfunction, there are some signs with which you should familiarize yourself. One of the most obvious signs is when your partner is having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection. Other symptoms can include difficulty achieving orgasm, premature ejaculation, failure to ejaculate, and low libido. If you are noticing any of these symptoms, it's important to talk to your partner about them.
Offer Emotional Support
When your partner is dealing with erectile dysfunction, it can be a difficult time for them. It is important to offer emotional support and let them know that you are there for them. You can do this by being positive, understanding, and supportive. Have a private conversation and let them know that you love them and that you will help them through this tough time.
Help with Practical Things
If your partner is struggling with erectile dysfunction, you can also help them out by doing practical things for them. This can include things like cooking meals, doing the grocery shopping, or taking care of the children. By helping out with these practical tasks, you can make your partner's life a little bit easier.
Be Positive and Understanding
It can be difficult to deal with erectile dysfunction, and your partner may feel ashamed and deal with low self-esteem. It's important to be positive and understanding, and let your partner know that you're there for them. You can offer emotional support, help with practical things, and be a positive force in their life.
Seek Help if Needed
If your partner is struggling to maintain an erection for more than a few months, or if the problems are impacting your relationship and sexual intimacy, it might be time to gently encourage them to seek professional help. Their first instinct will probably be to reject a doctor's visit since, in general, men feel embarrassed about this condition. Fortunately, there are many treatment options for erectile dysfunction, and pursuing them is completely normal. Don't be afraid to talk openly with your partner about seeking the services of a doctor. Once that conversation occurs, your partner should feel relaxed about the prospect of visiting a doctor's office.
Conclusion
Dealing with erectile dysfunction can disrupt you and your partner's sex life in a major way. However, by offering emotional support, helping out with practical things, and being positive and understanding, you can make the experience a little bit easier. Communication is key. If the problems persist or begin to impact your relationship, your partner should explore erectile dysfunction treatment with Dr. Appel.
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February 23, 2022
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Dr. Avidon Appel
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